19 November 2012

Main Reasons to Be Successful


Maybe for some people the title above is a bit strange or confusing. But I beg you to save your confusion first until you finish reading out the entire contents of this article. Hopefully at the end of the day, you can understand what I mean by 'reason for success' is.

Every day we think about dreams or our goals. Every day we go step by step towards the success we want. Often we are too focused on our dreams so that we do not have time to think about why we have to achieve success.
What is our reason for success? Do we really want it?
It seems this is a trivial thing, for what I think of the reason, I've got to focus on achieving my dreams. Believe me when you managed to find a reason why you want to achieve success, you will be more explosive when you managed to achieve your success.

To further clarify, I am asking for your help to imagine success is a journey. Travel dilampau can sometimes easily and sometimes very difficult. Success can also be a short trip or a long journey.
Then you try to remember back just one small example of your success. Jump to a point where the journey towards success began. Feel your feelings and emotions at the time.
What is the reason you set a goal or your dream is?
What is the first step that you take the time and how do you do it?
Try to identify what factors are motivating you or encouraging you to move forward?
Also identify what are the things that hinder you? How do you solve these problems?
Are you really happy or maybe even disappointed that dream or your goal is not to make you feel satisfied?

No need to worry if the questions difficult for you. To help answer it, I will outline the top 5 reasons why we want to achieve success.

1. We want to achieve success because it is part of our life plans.

Success is closely related to the plan is important in our lives such as graduation, getting a desirable job, starting your own business or start a new relationship. Achievement against these plans is a success for us. Each of these accomplishments bring positive feelings and emotions because we know that these plans have been successfully met, and it indicates that we have made a real progress.

2. We want the benefits of a success.

In many cases we want to feel the benefits obtained in connection with the achievement of a success. In our minds, has embedded a statement that there is a strong bond between the success achieved with the benefits. This led to the success of a bond so we wanted and we enjoy the process.

3. We love the feeling of victory.

Achieving success is a very positive experience that adds value to ourselves and our egos inflated. Achieving success can be said to be also a personal victory. People like victory. This is a very natural feeling. When two children play the game, each of them want to win. Although there are prizes up for grabs, they are not too ignore. Deep in our hearts, including two children, we like the feeling of being a winner.

4. We want impulse / stimulation in our lives.

Knowing that there is a dream or a goal we want to achieve, will stimulate us to act. Increasingly challenging dream / goal, the stronger the feeling of success. This is what will make our lives always excited. We will be motivated to achieve dreams / goals bigger and challenging. Automatically ourselves will always evolve to get better and better to a higher level.

5. We want to compensate for our failures in the past.

We've all experienced failure. Failures are very uncomfortable and is something that is inevitable in our lives, but by every failure there is always a positive learning. Failures can be more rekindle the spirit of our dreams. We experienced a defeat, but we want to win at the end. A victory would compensate all our bitter experience when experiencing failures.
This is often the basis for why we want to achieve success.

Hopefully the things above can help you find a reason why you want to achieve a success.

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