Have you ever faced a situation where it must decide or make choices, but you're filled with self-doubt - doubt due to various considerations about "Can I?" "Do not - do not" ............. "," If ...... then what? "While your friend with confidently giving spirit with the answer "it's easy .......... ah", ....... Why not? "
You and your friend have a difference is very influential in determining the success, which can be anything from how to see the positive side, it could be from the negative side, or as we know it "Negative and Positive Thinking".
Positive thinking turns giving someone the opportunity to become a leader. Therefore "Positive thinking" is an important matter given in training CEO (Chief Executive Officer) of the world manager. Even the success of Miss Universe Th. 2005 turned out to be largely determined by the principle of life that always thinks positive. This is evident from the confession as the jury asked: "What do you think is most important in your life? he confidently replied: I am always learning and trying to think positive. With positive thinking will impact quite strongly on World Peace. And it turns out the answer is what makes Miss Universe was elected to Th. , 2005.
It meant a lot to build positive attitudes and behavior. There are 12 Tips on
how to build a more positive attitude, among others:
1. You can choose to be optimistic.
The pessimist's focus to the negative (like looking at a glass of water as half empty / water that was not there). While the optimistic view that positive focus (like looking at a glass of water as half full) Prepare a better outlook? Who is more likely to be happier, more confident and more certain?
2. You can choose to accept everything as it is
This does not mean that you become a spirit and not give up. This means that you do not struggle, whine, and memebenturkan head against the wall when things go wrong. Actually, that makes you the victim of behavior that has no power (which is what adds to eat you load up your spirit). "Accept everything as it is, not as you imagined today. The past is gone, the future is still a mystery and now is a gift, that's why today is called "present = gift". Therefore today redeeming as well - should be.
3. You can choose to quickly recover
Develop an attitude - a positive attitude does not mean that you will never experience pain, suffering, or disappointment. In addition, developing an attitude - a positive attitude does not mean you should ignore the problem. Got a problem always has a reverse side. If you fail the exam, learn to be more active or looking tutors. If you lose a friend, mend friendships, or make new friends. If you do not like the way you look, develop a fantastic personality.
4. You can choose a story
Start by refusing it - the bleak, sungginglah smile. If you throw the word - the word positive, prmikiran - positive thoughts, and feelings - feelings are positive, then people - people (and things - things) positive will be attracted to you.
5. You can choose to be enthusiastic.
Greet each day with passion. Deliver it job - your job with enthusiasm. The more excited you are, the more people - and the people around you punmerasa be so, "Cheer up .....!"
6. You can choose to be more sensitive.
If you are more sensitive to the issue - a potential problem, then you can be better prepared to face and even evasive. You also may be sensitive to the experience - a positive experience. For example, if you heard the announcement about the team or trial new club, then take note of the time and place and berencanalah follow it, you will get something new.
7. You can choose humor.
If you did something stupid (all else has ever been) do not miss an opportunity to laugh at themselves. That's one of one of the greatest joys of life. If you laugh a lot, you will be fine. Laughter was issued a certain chemical in the body that can memebantumu merangsangmu and grow healthily. Humor and laughter is healthy.
8. You can choose sportsmanship
Sportsmanship means accepting defeat with a positive, smiling, shaking hands with the winner, not menyalajkan others Taua circumstances the defeat. This attitude can win you friends If it had not won a game or competition. "Sportive" also means no need to mock the loser when you win.
9. You can choose to humble
If you are really interested in the sesame, they will see your good qualities you If it had not advertise. They will not feel that you are trying to manipulate them, because the Lord did according to his fellow
10. You can choose to be grateful
Think about it: Probably a lot of that you can be grateful for. Gratitude makes you smile. It makes you happy with your life. And other people happy around you. Grateful to give peace to you.
11. You can choose to believe in
For some, this means to believe in Allah the Almighty or other higher brush. Having faith means to believe that everything will work out for you and that you can make everything yourself. If you expect to fail, it may reach the target.
12. You can choose hopeless
Hope may be the most important attitude positifmu basis for all other poritif attitude. What do you expect? What are your dreams? What are your ambitions? You mean in this life? If you want to consider the question - the question you've become a hopeless individual. "Hope is something that is winged - Which to the soul - And humming without the words - And never stops - at all.
"May your hope and mulialah achieved from today"
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